What Is Labia Stretching?
The process of labia stretching involves pulling or weighing down the inner labia, or labia minora, in order to elongate them. It started as a cultural tradition in parts of ancient Africa, Asia, and the South Seas, but has since been adopted by some Western cultures, though on a much smaller scale. It is primarily done for appearances and sexual enhancement.
Labia stretching is typically approached with the goal of permanently increasing the length of the labia minora. The process of stretching must be done on a regular basis for an extended period of time in order to achieve lasting results. Regular stretching also continually increases the size of the labia. The lips can extend to just outside the labia majora or stretch down as far as a woman’s knees.
There are two primary ways of approaching labia stretching: via pulling or with the use of weights. Pulling is the method used most frequently in tribal societies. The weight method is more common among practitioners in Western nations.
Traditional labia stretching in areas of Sub-Saharan Africa such as Rwanda is considered to be a rite of passage. It is typically practiced over the course of several years, from puberty onwards. The girl will usually perform stretching by herself as a part of a regular routine, with possible inspection and guidance by an older female family member. The length of the stretched labia in traditional cultures depends upon the tribe and the geographical area. There is a wide variance in length.
Labia stretching equipment can also be purchased. It usually consists of a small teardrop-shaped weight which is attached to the labia via a clamp or clip. A woman is typically advised to start stretching with a lighter weight, to be increased as the process progresses. In order to achieve even stretching, the weights are usually attached to different areas for each session, or multiple weights are placed across the lips, rather than having one heavier weight in a single spot.
Many women who engage in labia stretching consider the results to be a point of pride and a sign of maturity and sexual readiness. The traditional practice is so ingrained in these cultures that it is not a question of whether a girl will begin stretching, but when. The practice has been the source of some controversy. There are groups who claim that it is an act of genital mutilation similar to female castration. Supporters of stretching claim that the two practices are widely different, as stretching is meant to increase sexual pleasure and control, while castration is meant to reduce those sensations.
I don't know, but from a males point of view, I'm just not seeing the end game here. Maybe if it was the only solution to having any sensation. But to do all of that to try and get more sensation seems irregular.
Tribes seem to have some out there rituals anyway, so this doesn't surprise me with that. Maybe it's because small penises or lack of care towards women's pleasure runs in that tribe so it's the only option.
Me personally, and for any guys I know, a woman having what would be referred to as meat curtains (roast beef) isn't something to go searching for. Not appealing at all. One might think you encountered an elephant at some point.
If a man doesn't take the time to learn and assert himself to making sure you're pleasure is the goal, then at the minimum, guide his blind self for your own sake. Everything about a woman climaxing is the most arousing thing to me above all else. After that, anything else my way is just a plus.
The phrase you're beautiful the way you are was definitely aimed at women and so true. If you already have a man, you might also crush him by making him think his beautiful woman needs to scar herself for him to please her better. From now til the end a connection and a want to be around that person should be the goal to search for. You'll eventually get saggy and stretched in age. Also down the road, I doubt that will be the pleasure you're seeking. The connection, however, will still be important. Or your lips will just be long lonely lips anyway.
I started pulling mine in my late 30’s and 40 now. I did it every morning and evening with coconut oil. My husband also, per my request, would pull them during foreplay. I am happy to tell the others here it is not too late. Stay routine. I never missed a day. It was very arousing for me. I didn’t do it for him. But the longer they have gotten the more intensified our sexual experiences are. I’m extremely pleased with the length they are.
I will suggest that the women in all cultures to leave their labia alone and to be content with the natural length. It is absurd to tamper with natural size and length of the labia. I hope that women who elongates or shortens their labia are not doing it to please their man. There is no evidence that elongated labia or shortened labia enhances sexual pleasure in women.
I started at 10 then stopped. I got bored as it was painful and there was no encouragement. I regret stopping be cause am not even an inch long and I really enjoy getting attention down there. When they are sucked I come. If only someone had pulled me. I started again this week and I hurt myself. I am 35. I wish I could wake up tomorrow with 6 inches all round curtains. What do you use to get 4 inches? I only have to get them touched gently to get going.
I am 31 years old. I started stretching my labia daily about four months ago. So far I have not seen any good result, about 4 mm in length, maybe. So I increased the stretching to twice a day, every day for about 15 minutes. I sometimes ask my significant other to stretch my lips because he can pulls them harder than I can. I read about how girls in Uganda start stretching when they are 12. I wonder, did I start my labial stretching too late in life to see any good result? Has anyone else started in mid-life? What is your result in mm approximately?
The main problem with this "tradition" is that it is encouraged in very young children, it can be both painful and dangerous, and as such we can make a judgment against it. Also, this falls into the category of genital mutilation when practiced on very young girls, which is illegal in most first world countries. What adults choose to do is a different question, though even here social pressures can impose choices that are not really "free".
I started stretching my labia when I was 16. I am now 28 and my labia hang down four inches. I love the result and so do my lovers. I can recommend it to any girl to start in your mid teens while your body is developing.
Most people don't understand the whole ideology behind labia stretching. It's not ridiculous. Actually, it's quite normal in our culture. I am African. That is why most African men enjoy sex with African females -- because African women have longer labia, which increases sexual pleasure.
@JessicaLynn - Well, labia stretching and vaginal lips surgery may sound ridiculous to you, but I bet the people who engage in these practices would probably disagree.
Labia stretching is a cultural tradition, and it's not meant to harm the women. In fact, it's meant to increase their sexual pleasure! So while this practice may sound weird to us, I don't think we should judge these people for their culture.
As far as labia reduction, I think that's a personal choice. We all have various body parts we feel insecure about, and I don't see a problem with someone getting an operation so they feel more comfortable.
@indemnifym - Wow, vaginal plastic surgery? Now I've heard everything! I know plastic surgery is popular in this country, but that just sounds a little excessive to me.
I actually think both labia stretching and labia reduction sounds a little ridiculous. I imagine most people are born with "normal" looking genitalia, so why mess around and try to change it? It's not like it's something the general public is going to see!
I read an article that here in the United States, some women are getting a surgery called a labiaplasty, which is surgical vaginal lip reduction. These women want their inner labia to be smaller, not larger like in other countries.
I have to wonder how these cultural norms get started!
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